Sunday, 7 June 2015

Grief, touching up my memories

grief came to stay one day
and harshly took my hand
delved in my chest
squeezed my heart
and an ache began to spread
into my weary mind


i sat and quietly wept
quiet weeping at the start
but then as grief delved deeper
long lasting sobs
that tore deep chasms
into the paths
that you and i had walked


grief wasn’t done
not even near to done
deeper and deeper
until my life was torn
away from yours


i looked at grief and asked
why


i slumped there in disbelief
when in reply
grief smiled
and said
it’s time for us to bargain


it’s easy
i replied
i want you from my life
the joy, the delight that was my life
i want it back
and you i want completely gone
the beauty, the wonder, the to be found
i want it back as well


at that grief saddened
and quietly wept
my heart i had to harden
be gone
i will not with you bargain


the sadness of losing
someone close
the depth I can no longer walk
the ache that fills me constantly
i want it all to go


the sobs that came from grief
too much for even me to see
i closed my eyes and wept
my words tore grief apart


as grief turned
and slowly walked away
i felt at once relief
the pain was gone
the sadness too
the memories all grew dim


and yet
grief's words i heard
the words were very dim
the sound so far away
they echoed in my mind


a terrible bargain you aim to drive
one i hear so very often
of life unlived
of love unloved
of memories to be forgotten


i want them both
i want it back
my life, my love, the memories
but you must go
you cannot be
that taints the final ending


that’s my bargain


then walk with me
grief replied
your life
your love
your memories
can all still be
can all exist
it’s me that lets you reach them


i sat
and thought
and felt
and cried
great desolation overwhelmed me


but then I stopped
i breathed so deeply
and slowly i began to dance


i danced
with joy
with great delight
and utter and complete abandon


could grief be right
could joy be found
among the memories
that grief now tightly held


i sat
i wept
i smiled


i now walk the paths that we both walked
a different companion with me now
grief is not as good
not near as fun
but without grief
i’d have nothing


the joy you brought
the pain we felt
the amazing love we shared
it’s all still there
the colour painted through my life


and grief
grief quietly sits
touching up the colours
every day grief faithfully repaints
the texture of our life
as i recall them from our past


I walk with grief
we are friends now
it’s grief that lets me walk
the paths we walked
that I must walk
alone and without you

(C) Copyright Luke Visser 2015 (written May 2015)

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